How does one KNOW when they are done having children? I've heard others say that they just do. Man I would love such closure. This is the first time I've had a baby as old as Ezra (18 months) and not been pregnant. I hate the thought of another rough pregnancy of multiplying the craziness that is our household but the number one reason that I'm not currently pregnant is that Beach does KNOW that he's done. The last thing in the world that I want is to add more stress and pressure on him and go against what he feels.